Henry Ashton Crosby (1843-1917) married in late 1878 Mary (May) Leavitt (1850-1929). They had: John Player, Sheldon Leavitt, Beatrice Wells, Josephine May Ashton, and Henry Ashton Crosby 2nd, between 1879 and 1886, birth dates uncertain. Henry A. Crosby Sr. (Harry) was a relatively unsuccessful businessman who tried his hand at finance, real estate, and railroads, mostly in New York City.
Harry and May had a troubled marriage, due apparently to financial worries, Harry's weak personality, and May's strong personality and keen sense of honor. In October of 1894 she took the children to Dresden, Germany to live. From then to the fall of 1897 they lived in Dresden, traveling a little to other places in Germany, and then in late 1897 returned to the U.S., when Harry and May were apparently reconciled. Harry Crosby died in 1917 and Mary Leavitt Crosby died in 1929.
Beatrice Wells Crosby (Betty) married, on 30 Sep. 1909, in New York City, New York, Daniel Ammen de Menocal, a banker of Cuban descent and a son of Commander A. G. de Menocal of the United States Navy. They traveled frequently and lived abroad, eventually settling in Newport, Rhode Island, and Boston, Massachusetts. They lived in Peking, China, from 1909 until 1914. The de Menocals had four children: Beatrice Crosby de Menocal (a.k.a. "Babs"); Richard Ammen de Menocal (a.k.a. "Dickie"); Esmée de Menocal; and Daniel Crosby de Menocal (b. 1926).
Josephine May Ashton Crosby married in 1913 Allan Forbes, banker and trust manager at State Street Trust Company, Boston, Mass. They had five children: Phyllis (1915), Robert Bennet (1916-1945), Allan (1919), James Murray (1922), and Henry Ashton Crosby Forbes (1925).
John Player Crosby (Jack, d. 1953) did not marry, and resided in New York City, Washington, D.C., and later lived with Josephine's family. He was unsuccessful in the finance and real estate industries.
Sheldon Leavitt Crosby (Chuffy), a diplomat, although in business in New York for 10 years, was appointed 3rd secretary of the Embassy at London, 1910; secretary of the Legation and consul general at Bangkok, 1912-14; 2nd secretary of the Embassy at Madrid, 1914-15; 2nd secretary of the Embassy at Vienna, 1915-17; 1st secretary of the Embassy at London, 1917-19; 1st secretary of the Embassy at Rome 1919-20; counselor of the Legation at Stockholm, 1920-21; 1st secretary of the Embassy at Rio de Janeiro, 1921-24; 1st secretary of the Embassy at Istanbul, 1924-30; counselor of the Embassy at Madrid, 1930-32; counselor of the Embassy at Warsaw, 1932-35; retired 1935. He died at Paris July 10, 1936.
Henry Ashton Crosby 2nd (Ashton, 1886-1930) graduated from Harvard in 1909. He married in 1910 Rosalie de Forest, and worked as a stockbroker and then an insurance broker in New York City. The couple had Henry A. Crosby 3rd (1912), Rosalie de Forest (1915), and Cynthia de Forest (1922). He died suddenly in a single-car accident near Mt. Kisko, N.Y., in 1930.
The collection is mostly family correspondence, centering around Mary Leavitt Crosby. Papers before her marriage are almost all letters to her from family and friends, including her brothers Sheldon and Frank K. Leavitt and her father who must have died shortly before her marriage. Correspondence in the 1890s, particularly 1894-97, betrays serious marital troubles that were eventually ironed out. The letters also tell much of life in Dresden, and there are many letters from the children to their father describing their schooling and activities there. May's letters are mostly diatribes against Harry, and pleas for more money to pay for rent, food and clothing, as well as accounts of their social life, relatives in Germany, and the children's schooling and activities. Harry's letters describe his activities at work and home, and his leisure time with his friends and relatives. In his letters to his children, he often preaches on morality and religion.
Later correspondence (after 1897) is mostly letters from the children to May from various places of travel and work. From 1913, the correspondence is heavily Sheldon L. (Chuffy) to his mother from various diplomatic posts.
Gift of H. A. Crosby Forbes, Cambridge, Mass.,1992.
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