Diary of Charles Francis Adams, volume 4

Sunday. 26th.

Tuesday. 28th.

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Monday. 27th.

The morning was cloudy and threatened rain, notwithstanding which my Wife and I went to town together as by agreement in the Carriage. After calling at the House, I went to the Office and occupied myself in Accounts and in reading. The Newspapers contain a Correspondence between Messrs. Ingham and Eaton, of a nature so disgraceful as to set every thing else that has happened in the back ground.1

I had a Call from a Son of R. New’s making inquiry about the final distribution. He gave me more information respecting his father’s character than I had yet received. His was a case fit for a moralizing romance. One of the humble instances of suffering from the affections of the heart, which may be found in common life, and passed over without a comment. The world heals over without difficulty, and yet the pang is as acute, the sorrow as powerful as if a King experienced it, and a Court mourned in sympathy. R. New had a daughter and four Sons. He was a Barber in a good run of business and had acquired some Property besides. This daughter was educated by him with more than usual care, he had strained his means to give her extraordinary advantages, and he looked to her more than to all his other children united, for the comfort and happiness of his old age. She had been addressed by a respectable young man, a Silversmith by trade and in all respects a suitable match for her, and had become engaged to him with the approbation of her Father. Here he seemed to look for his future hours of peace, and Providence hitherto had smiled upon him with unusual favour. The Silversmith unfortunately went to Philadelphia for a little while, during which time, she happened one evening to go to the Theatre. The whole case immediately changed its aspect. She fell desperately in love at first sight with one of the Actors, procured an introduction to him, and soon forgot her vows upon gaining his Attentions. The remainder is the pathetic portion of the Story. Her father refusing his consent, she was married without it, and from that moment, he lost all his motives to live. Unwilling to commit suicide, and yet not desirous to live, he took to using the slow but sure poison which our numerous shops afford. His affairs went to ruin and he found a happy relief to save him from the extremities of earthly misery. But on his death bed, when his unrepenting daughter, forced by her husband on pain of his displeasure, went to him at the Hospital and offered her hand, the last moments of his existence were used in a violent effort to disengage himself from her. He had been too severely wounded to remember the injunctions of Christianity. The Son told me this much more forcibly than I describe it.

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I dined at Mr. Frothingham’s who regaled us sumptuously, and in the Afternoon attended the Meeting of the Directors of the Boylston Market as by adjournment. Little or nothing done or to do. I came back to Mr. Frothingham’s early from whence I started with Abby home and reached it before tea. Quiet evening. I afterwards read Grimm and the Spectator.

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The principal items in the correspondence, originally carried on in the columns of the United States Telegraph, were reprinted in the Boston Patriot and the Boston Daily Advertiser on this day. The controversy between the two members of the Cabinet, now resigned, began with John H. Eaton’s allegations of slurs upon Mrs. Eaton (the former Peggy O’Neale) by Samuel D. Ingham and concluded with a slur upon Mrs. Ingham by Eaton and Ingham’s avowal that he had been waylaid and threatened with assassination. See also entry for 7 Aug., below.