“Tuesday Oct. 29h: Called to see Mr. Adams. Dined with him. He is much pleased with
Mr. Jay. Went in the Morning to see D: Franklin—did not know of Mr. Adams Arrival.
Spoke to Mr. A. about making his visit to Dr. F. He told me it was time enough—represented
to him the necessity of meeting. He replied there was no necessity —that after the
usage he had received from him he could not bear to go near him. I told him whatever
their differences were he would do wrong to discover any to the World and that it
might have a bad effect on our Affairs at this time. He said the D: might come to
him. I told him it was not [his] place—the last comer always paid the first visit. He replied the Dr. was to come
to him [since] he was first in the Comm[issio]n. I ask[ed] him how the D: was to know he was here unless he went to him. He replied
that was true, he did not think of that and would go. Afterwards when pulling on his
Coat he said he would not, he could not bear to go where the D: was. With much persuasion
I got him at length to go. He said he would do it, since I would have it so; but I
was always making mischeif and so I should find” (Matthew Ridley, Diary, MHi).
Cite web page as: Founding Families: Digital Editions of the Papers of the Winthrops and the Adamses, ed.C. James Taylor. Boston: Massachusetts Historical Society, 2015.