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My Dearest Friend
I have received yours of January 22d [Abigail to John, 22 January 1797] . I know not the reason you had not received Letters for a Week. There has not been a Week Since I arrived in Philadelphia that I have not written you twice or thrice.
I agree with you that Something must be done for my Mother to make her Condition comfortable and respectable. A Horse and Chaise must be at her Command and I like your other Plan very well if she approves it. But I believe She will never think of leaving my Brothers Family. If she should prefer Staying with him I will be at the Expence of the Wages and Board of a Maid or Woman to live in the House and be wholly under her Direction. If Mears will take our House, or if he does not, if Mrs. Mears will take the Care of her and she is willing to go to Mrs. Mears's, I shall be willing. But I think she will prefer scarce Provision for her at my Brothers. I shall leave it to you and her to digest and determine the Plan and any Expence for her Comfort and respectability I will chearfully defray.
There are no public Letters from our sons later than the latter part of September.
An Embargo, which you say the Merchants talk of petitioning for, would not perhaps answer the End. It would give a shock to Us which our People would impatiently bear and hurt the English so much more than the French, that perhaps they would persevere in their system as a Measure of Hostility against their Enemy.
If you come to me at all, the earlier in the spring the better: for We must go to Quincy for the hot Months. The Plague has got into this Country and I will not remain here, nor shall you during the Season of it. But my Dearest Friend We must consult oeconomy in every Thing. The Prices of Things are so extravagantly high that We shall be driven to Extremities to live in any decent style. I must hire and maintain secretaries as well as servants and the purchase of Horses, Carriage, Furniture and the Rent of a House 2666 Dollars & 2/3 a year will Streighten Us and put Us to all manner of shifts. I have a great Mind to dismiss all Levees, Drawing Rooms and Dinners at once. Dinners upon Washingtons Scale I will dismiss and only entertain a few select Friends. They shall have a Republican President in earnest.
A Committee of Senate have reported in favour of an Augmentation of salaries but
I fear you will not persuade Mears to take our House and I know not who else to think of.
Alass my Poor Country! Divided in herself, insulted by France, and very frequently by Englishmen even since the Govt. have assured an Appearance of Moderation. Witness the cruel tyrannical Treatment of Capt. Diamond at St. Eustatia.
The Faederalists themselves are divided and crumbling to Pieces.Allmost all the ablest and best Men are discouraged and many of them retiring. And this has been brought about by Tom Paine and prophesying Clergymen and French Finesse and Intrigue. But I must stop to assure You of my tenderest & and never failing Affection.
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