Diary of John Quincy Adams, volume 1
1786-01-10
Leonard White came up in the morning, and proposed to me, to make one of a small slaying
party to Ham
1786-01-11
Finished in the forenoon, the second Book of the Cyropaedia; which I began, the 2d. of this month, and in the afternoon I began upon the book of Luke, in the Testament. I finish'd Matthew, last Thursday, and passed over Mark, in which it is supposed there is no difficulty, and which I may go through, in case, I have leisure. Miss Nancy, went in the afternoon with a large Party on slaying; and dancing. I loiter'd away the whole evening, which I have not done before, for some time. But I made up the lost time in the Night: between 1 and 2 in the morning when I retired to bed.
1786-01-12
Began in the forenoon upon the third book of the Cyropaedia; Eliza Duncan, Miss Stevenson and Mr. Bil. Osgood spent the Evening here. Nancy has been very much in the dumps, these two or three days. I hope she is not offended with herself; for though she has many very great foibles (the lot of humanity) yet, upon the whole she is really a good girl.
1786-01-13
Mrs. Payson pass'd the afternoon here. A Daughter of Mrs. Sargeants who was a Coquettish young Widow, and married, about 9 months since; she is in some measure the arbiter of Taste 387and fashion here: and makes very smart and severe Remarks, upon every one, who does not happen to dress or dance, according to her Taste.
I went down with Nancy to Mr. Duncans, and was there all the Evening; there was
considerable Company: the young Squire, as empty, as a Drum, though it must be said in his
favour, that he is not very talkative. Mr. Tim Osgood, who return'd yesterday from Newbury,
where he went to carry Miss Knight. Mr. Duncan, said, he was an ambitious man, for that he
was doing all he could to be Knighted. Miss Stevenson,
endeavours to say very witty things, and has an archness of look, as who should say, is not
that excellent. There is perhaps a little affectation in the
matter, but it is all very excuseable, in a Lady. We must always judge of persons and things
from their qualities, relative to others of the same kind. In this Country where fortunes
are almost universally very small, four or five hundred £ sterling, annual income is
considered as a large fortune; in Europe, it is a very trifling one. Were our young Ladies
generally remarkable, for great virtues, and very few and inconsiderable faults, one might
with Reason be strict, and severe; but as the matter stands, we must entirely over look
small, foibles,
for most of our damsels are like portraits in crayons, which at a distance look, well, but if you approach near them, are vile daubings. There are some indeed who like the paintings of the great masters, excite admiration more and more, the nearer, and the longer they are examined. A few such, alone can reconcile me to a sex, which I should otherwise, doubt whether to hate, despise, or pity most.
Matthew Prior, “An English Padlock,” [lines 78–79]; JQA has reversed the
lines. A copy of Prior's Poems on Several Occasions, 2 vols.
in 1, Glasgow, 1759, was owned by JQA at this time (MQA).