Diary of John Quincy Adams, volume 1
1786-01-13
Mrs. Payson pass'd the afternoon here. A Daughter of Mrs. Sargeants who was a Coquettish young Widow, and married, about 9 months since; she is in some measure the arbiter of Taste 387and fashion here: and makes very smart and severe Remarks, upon every one, who does not happen to dress or dance, according to her Taste.
I went down with Nancy to Mr. Duncans, and was there all the Evening; there was
considerable Company: the young Squire, as empty, as a Drum, though it must be said in his
favour, that he is not very talkative. Mr. Tim Osgood, who return'd yesterday from Newbury,
where he went to carry Miss Knight. Mr. Duncan, said, he was an ambitious man, for that he
was doing all he could to be Knighted. Miss Stevenson,
endeavours to say very witty things, and has an archness of look, as who should say, is not
that excellent. There is perhaps a little affectation in the
matter, but it is all very excuseable, in a Lady. We must always judge of persons and things
from their qualities, relative to others of the same kind. In this Country where fortunes
are almost universally very small, four or five hundred £ sterling, annual income is
considered as a large fortune; in Europe, it is a very trifling one. Were our young Ladies
generally remarkable, for great virtues, and very few and inconsiderable faults, one might
with Reason be strict, and severe; but as the matter stands, we must entirely over look
small, foibles,
for most of our damsels are like portraits in crayons, which at a distance look, well, but if you approach near them, are vile daubings. There are some indeed who like the paintings of the great masters, excite admiration more and more, the nearer, and the longer they are examined. A few such, alone can reconcile me to a sex, which I should otherwise, doubt whether to hate, despise, or pity most.
Matthew Prior, “An English Padlock,” [lines 78–79]; JQA has reversed the
lines. A copy of Prior's Poems on Several Occasions, 2 vols.
in 1, Glasgow, 1759, was owned by JQA at this time (MQA).
1786-01-14
I was up late last Night, to finish the fourth book of Horace's Odes; and found my Eyes, this morning very sore indeed, so that I could not write or read. Mr. Storer,1 Mr. Atkinson,2 and Mr. W. Smith arrived, at about 10 in the morning, and my time was 388taken up, in going about with them. Visited Mr. Stoughton for the first time: Mrs. Stoughton is by no means fond of this Town. The sudden transition, from London, to so small and retired a Town as this, where she has no intimate acquaintance, must be disagreeable. Solitude, can never constitute a man's happiness, much less a woman's. I imagine they will not continue in Town long. Mr. Thaxter, Eliza, and the gentlemen, dined here; I had a thousand Questions to ask, Charles Storer, and forgot three quarters of them, not knowing which to ask first. He brought me, my watch chain, and some Letters.3
Adams Family Correspondence
, 4:127; Storer to AA, 17 Oct. 1782; JA to John Jay, 25
Aug. 1785, LbC; AA2 to JQA, 24 Sept.–1 Oct. 1785, Adams
Papers).
John Atkinson, who married Harvard Graduates
, 12:213–214;
Scrapbook, MHi:Elizabeth Hall Smith
Papers).
The letters probably included at least the following: AA2 to JQA, 26 Aug.–13 Sept. 1785; JA to JQA, 31 Aug., 9 Sept. 1785; AA to JQA, 6, 12 Sept. 1785 (Adams Papers).